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Hi i have a divorce unsettled with division 401 k from my ex wife

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Why should it be less and less when the cost of living goes up and up. A ex husband gets married, and his income goes up an ex-wife gets married and her income goes down and she was the one who supported him and got him a great job because of my dad and I moved out of state left my family and friends because HE WANTED TO PROMOTE in the company, we were doing fine so I move away from family and friends He isolates me cheats and start choking, and beating me. But YOU LADIES THINK I SHOULD TAKE LESS WHEN HE HAS BEEN LIVING GREAT THE WHOLE TIME. I can't even buy my grandkid's b day gifts. PLUS HE IS ALWAYS LATE and that cost me late fees. I can't even remember the last time I bought a new top and my car tires are bold. So many men are on here tell other men how to burn their ex out of alimony I thought females would at least help females. You screw females so men like you, so your in the good old boy group. shame on you suck ups. Trust me when the younger females come in, you'll be out the door!

Budget for divorce legal fees?? Who budgets for a divorce??

❤ "how do you deal with an impass?" But what is "caucussing"?

How long they go back with pay stubs to calculate child support. (I’m in California)

So the law makes you pay if the non earning parent is an underachiever. It would appear to me it should be off their earning potential. Otherwise, there is no motivation for the non earning parent to do better in life.

Informative but depressing as I am about to make changes to custody due to job relocation. I am realizing I will be taken to the cleaners again with a non working ex-spouse. 😢

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Insightful video. I thought weddings were expensive (they are). But I see they pale in comparison to the cost of a divorce. Sheesh! People definitely need to see this long before even thinking about getting married.

If you're a woman and you want to divorce your husband just because you don't like him anymore, you don't have right over the stuff that he worked hard for. Its very simple, go tell your new lover to buy you a house and new car.

Ridiculous.

Sounds like my husband, he said he wasn't paying spousal support,. Hr makes the money, but i pay my bills with my money, he flips out even if you take a penny.

Do you have any CDFA recommendations in Virginia?

If I'm keeping the house what is realistic number to split the value. Can you remove the brokers fee's and paperwork fees along with needed repairs from the total? Is this a common accepted practice?

Wow Very Nice Video

2:10 👏wow women talking about financial abuse and tell "There are plenty of women who are financial abuser", nice to hear something gender neutral. And many women are worried that they will have to pay spousal support to their unemployed husband. This stupid alimony thing should be removed from the law, when the financial abuser gets rewarded with alimony, in some states life long alimony, for refusing to get a job during marriage. No one should be financially responsible for their ex wife or husbad, that they divorced decades ago. If a support is needed it might be one time payment, or property division, but not life long slavery, to a person who was financially abusing you during the marriage. Children need child support, but not adults who chose not to work during marriage. In most cases husbands are deterred from divorcing unemployed stay at home mom, by potential alimony and guaranteed child support, that greatly exceeds child's needs and might put him on the street. Many many couples try to stay together until the youngest turns 18, and immediately after that divorce.

13:03 The women who wanted the divorce seem to bounce back pretty quickly. According to statistic in most cases women initiate divorce some 70 to 80% of the times, so they can bounce back faster. Where comes the money that helps those leeches bouncing back so quickly? The poor husband has to financially support two households, and the priory is to keep the lifestyle of the non-employed spouse. In case ex hudand is not a millionaire some women are shocked that alimony is not enough and sometimes they have to get a job after divorce, for the first time in decades, what a terrible surprise. I understand child support, and asset division. But spousal support, especially if the spouse who needs support does not have a job is terrible financial abuse. I wonder how often high earing women have to pay alimony to their unemployed husbands who suffered form substance abuse and gambling. Are those women shocked that they have to pay alimony, so their drug addicted ex husband can maintain his lifestyle and hobbies?

I had my cs court date today and well according to however the judge entered the income for me and imputed incomr for my ex spouse it ended up higher with the imputed income 🙃

Child support is a huge scam!!!!

Why do you lie to make the woman think she can keep the house? Part time worker at 17 bucks an hour...no way wife can qualify for 750K loan on house. Why do you even think she has that chance? Because you are lying? And then she is going to pay 12K on property taxes. No! She has to leave. Tell the truth. All you give is what ifs - and only if the other lawyer works withy you? Why would the other spouses lawyer help you out? Are you even lucid? All you do is make crazy optimistic scenarios. Stop it! No way she can keep the house and pay for it!

Why I am ordered to pay child support when 75% of my income goes for housing, and the other party claims to be disabled but always. He has been working under the table. He has investments under his parents name. He receives subsidy for housing which allows him to have a two bedroom apartment for his only use. On his parenting time our son stays with grandparents. This is not fair, I won't be able to pay my rent in the next months. This is not beneficial for our son, do not have a place to live with mother. What should I do!! what part of this law could benefit my case?

Great video! Very informative!

What if the higher paying parent has custody of children and pays for health care and the other parent only takes kids to school when they can walk or bike to school and not paying anything?

My soon to be ex husband shows he makes 0 on his taxes. He received a 5 million dollar inheritance in 2016 when we were married, subsequently quit his job bc he didnt have to work. He also has other investments and 4 rental properties. How will this affect child support if it shows he makes 0 money. When he quit work he was making about 70k a year but that was in 2016 so he'd be more likely to be up near 100k now. He is obviously living off something to pay his mortgage, vacations, daily living. Would the courts estimate what he can make, add in income from house, any income generated from the inheritance to calculate CS? My ex has told me for years that i would have to pay him bc he was a "stay at home dad" (which is not true bc i never agreed to that and was paying for child care) and didnt work.

Hi just wanted to know if I make a 1000 a week do they calculate child support on the 1000 or after they take the taxes out I'm in California thanks for the video

It’s just a shame that attorneys that are doing these divorces don’t tell their clients about QDROs. So much time wasted.

I have two situations: 1. I think my former spouse withdrew money from one of his retirement accounts that I was entitled to, without my knowledge and 2. DFAS is giving me a hard time about getting my portion from his military pension . The divorce decree listed all of his retirement accounts as being 50/50 community property stating the military portion as “Sims Portion”. My attorney has no clue of how to help me. Where do I turn?

Horrible experience with QDRO attorney ... don't respond to clients, provide zero proof they complete to contractual work ... attorneys are not all the same ... some are bad ... some bad ones endorsed here ... numerous bar complaints

why does she owe husband full half equity, if she is accepting half his debt of remaining mortgage?

nice job Laurie. We really have to get you on the Cloud version of FLS :)

What if we decide to get a divorce but then agree to keep the house and continue to share the mortgage payment to be able to pay it off and for our son to inherit it. Would that be possible if we both agreed to it?

Thank you for this video. Lots of great information

Can a CFDA come up with child support and spousal support numbers?

The reason I asked Alimony because I cant work because im taking care of our mental disable child. Its so hard

You guys are heroes. Thank you. It takes a tribe. You helped me to help my parents and, in return, help me and my community in the end. Plesse never stop making educational content.

Does a trust only protect a husband in a divorce even if wife is on it as a beneficiary ?

A good one is , What would happen if one of us had to go into a care therapy facility and they legally freeze our bank accounts and savings accounts ? We need separate accounts for that reason. My very wealthy friend's husband had a stroke and he was in rehab for 4 long years and their money was frozen , the well person could not touch it.

How rediculous to consider money more imoportant than fidelity!

I’m a foreign national, married to USA citizen (CA) in 2013. He visited me twice and never came back. I don’t have children from him. He was a pensioner at the time of marriage,am I qualified for spousal support? I have never been to USA

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We divorced one month ago.i am a stay home mom married 52 years. I am entitled to 50 percent. Does the court contacts a qudro lawyer to do the qudro.

Divorce is a racket for lawyers

Men fight, women run away😊

This is MY life!!!!!

Avoid lawyers. They are predators.

Thank you for the financial discussion about divorce. More good reasons to be very certain about choosing and vetting the right person to be my spouse. Good to discuss an exiting strategy for leaving the relationship before a serious relationship starts. Love the comment comparing condoms to prenups.

It's can also be a shock to the husband who has to give up what that have built up

What is your phone number so i can contact you. Im in California